The Ultimate Guide to BJ Bars in Thailand – Where to Go, What to Expect & Why It Feels So Damn Good

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Thailand is world-famous for its vibrant adult entertainment scene – and at the very heart of it is the beloved blowjob bar. These unique venues (often called BJ bars) are dedicated to the simple pleasure of oral sex, where you can walk in for a drink and leave utterly satisfied. In this guide, we dive deep into the BJ bar culture in Bangkok, Pattaya, and Phuket, naming real venues, detailing prices and services, and even sharing tips and techniques. Whether you’re a curious first-timer or a seasoned traveler, this is the most detailed, honest, and informative guide you’ll find on the art of the blowjob in Thailand. Let’s get started!

Bangkok’s BJ Bars – Slick Salons in the Big Mango

Bangkok’s bustling nightlife isn’t just go-go clubs and beer bars – it also hides a handful of specialty BJ bars that cater to those seeking quick oral pleasure. These places are discreet (you won’t see “Blowjob Bar” flashing on a neon sign for legal reasons), but well-known among expats and naughty tourists. Most are concentrated around Sukhumvit Road, with a few legendary spots in other districts. Here are Bangkok’s top BJ bars and what to expect at each:

• Lolita’s (Sukhumvit Soi 8) – Perhaps Bangkok’s most famous blowjob bar, Lolita’s is tucked in a small sub-soi off Sukhumvit 8. It’s a tiny, dimly lit lounge with a tatty vibe – but it has a cult following. Take a seat at the counter or sofa, and one of the ladies will soon be on her knees behind a little curtain “desk” ready to service you. Prices here hover around ฿800 for a standard BJ. The staff are middle-aged but friendly, and the experience is no-frills and quick. Don’t expect model looks – guys come here for the novelty and convenience (legend has it the term “slimmer’s lunch” was coined for a noon beer-and-blowjob at places like Lolita’s). Tip: There’s an upstairs room if you’re shy, and some girls might allow CIM (cum in mouth) if you tip extra – ask politely.
• Kasalong (Sukhumvit Soi 7/1) – Just around the corner from Lolita’s, in the short alley of Soi 7/1, sits Kasalong. This tiny BJ bar is easy to miss, but it’s popular for its budget price and enthusiastic service. Like Lolita’s, a BJ here costs around ฿800 or less, making it one of the cheapest in town. The interior is simple – bar stools and a curtained area where the magic happens. The ladies might not be super young, but they know what they’re doing. It’s a very quick in-and-out setup; many customers pop in for a BBBJ (bare-backed blowjob) on their way to or from Nana Plaza nearby. Don’t be afraid to smile and chat a bit – the girls appreciate a friendly customer.
• Wood Bar (Sukhumvit Soi 7/1) – A few steps from Kasalong, Wood Bar is another old-school BJ joint. It’s basically next door, offering a similar deal: cold beer and a warm mouth. Wood Bar has a reputation for being straightforward and foreigner-friendly. Prices are in the same range (around ฿700–฿800). According to one 2024 nightlife guide, Wood Bar and Kasalong both charge about 800 baht for a BJ. The venue itself is nothing fancy – think of a narrow bar space with a handful of local women in skimpy dresses ready to please. Services here are typically limited to oral (no full sex on site), but for many that’s exactly the point. Enjoy a quick deepthroat session and be on your way with a grin.
• 7-Heaven (Sukhumvit Soi 33) – For a step up in class (and cost), Bangkok offers BJ salons like 7-Heaven. Tucked in the Phrom Phong area (Soi 33), 7-Heaven markets itself as a “BJ salon” with prettier girls and a cleaner, more private setup. Inside, it feels more like a massage parlor: cozy rooms, beds or reclining chairs, and attractive young women in sexy outfits. The catch? You’ll pay more here. A blowjob at 7-Heaven is about ฿1,300, which is roughly double the Sukhumvit 7/8 price – but many say it’s worth it. The girls are hotter and often younger, and you can even choose two or three at once if you’re in the mood (their menu lists 2-girl BJ for ฿2,500 and so on). Expect a very sensual service: lots of teasing, maybe a body-to-body slide, and skillful technique (some of these ladies are pros at ball sucking and deepthroating). It’s a more luxurious experience overall. Tip: Because it’s pricier, 7-Heaven is usually less crowded – a good choice if you want unrushed attention.
• Madame Claude (Sukhumvit Soi 26) – A newer addition to Bangkok’s BJ scene, Madame Claude is an upscale erotic “French style” bar on Sukhumvit 26. It’s essentially a BJ bar modeled as a high-end gentlemen’s club. You’ll find a classy interior, soft music, and attractive hostesses in cocktail dresses. The theme is sensual “Thai therapy with a French twist.” Here, a blowjob is similarly priced around ฿1,200–฿1,300 (in line with 7-Heaven). Madame Claude is known for attentive service – the girls might start with a neck massage or “ball massage” (they reportedly offer an elaborate menu of 12 testicle massage techniques!) before moving on to oral pleasure. Many patrons describe the experience as intimate and pampering, quite unlike the seedy vibe of Lolita’s. It’s a great place if you want a longer session or to feel like a VIP. Reserve some extra baht for a drink; in upscale places, a lady’s drink can cost ฿200+.
• Patpong Classics (Star of Light & Kangaroo Club) – Bangkok’s oldest red-light district, Patpong, also has a couple of classic BJ bars. Star of Light and Kangaroo Club have been around for decades. These are very small, old bars hidden among Patpong’s go-go’s. The formula is the same – cheap beer and a quick oral service – but note the providers here tend to be older veterans, some possibly in their 40s or more. On the plus side, they are usually very skilled and unabashed. Prices in Patpong’s BJ bars are similar (฿700–฿800 range). Don’t expect any luxury; it’s likely a dim cubicle or even right under the bar counter. Patpong BJ bars are part of Bangkok lore, and worth a visit if you’re feeling nostalgic or adventurous.

What to expect in Bangkok’s BJ bars: Generally, you walk in and order a drink (it’s polite to buy at least a beer for yourself; around ฿100–฿150). A hostess will usually approach or give you a knowing smile. You can cut to the chase by indicating you’re there for “service.” Pay the agreed price upfront or to the cashier (this covers the act and often a small room fee if used). Most BJs are BBBJ (unprotected) by default – one reason they feel so good – but condom-on might be available if you prefer. CIM (cum in mouth) may or may not be allowed; ask beforehand and be ready to tip an extra ฿500 or so if you want it. COF (cum on face) is less common, but some wild ones might oblige for a higher tip – just be very courteous in asking, as not every Thai girl is okay with that. After finishing, you’ll typically be offered tissues and perhaps mouthwash (many BJ bars keep jumbo Listerine bottles handy!). It’s customary to tip the girl ฿100–฿200 for good service, especially in the lower-end bars where the base price is cheap. Overall, Bangkok’s BJ bars offer convenience and stress relief in the midst of the city chaos – a quick fix for those who love oral fun.

Pattaya’s Blowjob Bar Heaven – Options Galore in Sin City

The entrance of Lolitas Pattaya, a long-running BJ bar turned lounge on Soi Buakhao. This unassuming spot serves up cold beers and hot blowjobs in a comfortable setting.

If Bangkok has a few BJ bars, Pattaya has a smorgasbord. Pattaya is a beach town known as a playground for adult travelers, and it truly lives up to its reputation with regards to oral entertainment. Here you’ll find BJ bars of every style: from tiny one-room “quickie” bars to more elaborate clubs with private booths. Many are concentrated in specific areas like Soi 6 or Soi Post Office, while others are scattered around town. The best part? Prices are generally even lower than Bangkok, and the competition keeps service standards high. Let’s break down Pattaya’s BJ bar scene by area:

• Soi 13/2 – The Post Office Soi: This street, nicknamed Soi Post Office for the postal branch located there, is BJ Bar Central in Pattaya. By day or night, you can stroll down and spot several dedicated blowjob bars sitting side by side. The most famous here were the Pump Station 1 & 2 and a newer venue called Kittens Bar. Pump Station is a Pattaya legend – essentially a dive bar where the primary activity is implied in the name (think of “pumping” in a cheeky way). It’s not glamorous: older women, a somewhat gritty atmosphere, and sex happening either behind a curtain or upstairs. A BJ at Pump Station runs about ฿900 (including a small room fee). Service is efficient if not overly sensual. Right across the street, Kittens Bar opened later to bring some fresh faces and style to Soi 13/2. Kittens has a modern decor (bright paint, big TV playing YouTube music videos) and younger, attractive girls who actively try to pull you in. Despite the nicer ambiance, prices remain very reasonable – around ฿800 for a blowjob (they might even quote ฿1000 but often agree to ฿800). The catch at Kittens (and Pump Station) is they typically take you upstairs to a private room for the act, rather than doing it at your seat. The room incurs a fee (~฿300) but it’s usually bundled in the price. Tip: If you’re into ladyboys, Pump Station often has one or two working – sometimes even more eager to please than the GGs (genetic girls). Overall, Soi 13/2 is a one-stop shop for quick oral fun – you could literally try a “pub crawl” of BJ bars down this one lane!
• Lolitas Pattaya (Soi Chaloem Phrakiat 25, off Soi Buakhao): Yes, the famous Lolita’s has a branch in Pattaya too. In fact, it’s been around for ages and even underwent a transformation into a more lounge-like gentlemen’s club format. Located down a small side street off Soi Buakhao, Lolitas Pattaya is marked by a red facade and a neon sign. Inside, you’ll find a comfortable air-conditioned space with couches, a pool table, and a bar – a much more relaxed environment than the seedy BJ joints of old. Here, you can actually hang out, have a drink, chat up the ladies, and not feel rushed. They often play music at a conversational volume and even offer free Wi-Fi and newspapers for those who linger. But of course, the main draw is still the blowjobs upstairs. When ready, you head to a private room which has a distinctive setup: a red vinyl couch and a wall mirror – perfect for watching the action. A standard BJ at Lolitas Pattaya costs around ฿700, making it one of the best bargains for the quality. The girls here range from cute spinners to a few MILFs; overall a decent selection (average 7/10 as one blog rated them). They’re known to be friendly and good at what they do. Since it doubles as a social bar, the vibe is more laid-back – you could actually take your time, maybe go for round two after a beer. Some nights they even have live music or a little buffet (leftover from its “gentlemen’s club” experiment). If you prefer a less hurried, more social BJ bar experience, Lolitas Pattaya is the spot.
• Soi 6 – Pattaya’s Short-Time BJ Strip: Soi 6 is already infamous as Pattaya’s raunchiest street, lined with dozens of short-time bars where anything goes. Naturally, several of these bars specialize in oral service or at least heavily feature it. On Soi 6, you don’t even necessarily need a separate BJ bar – most bars will gladly provide one if you ask, either right there on a sofa or in an upstairs room. However, a few have made a name for being the BJ go-tos. For example, King Kong Bar is one of the first bars on Soi 6 (coming from Second Road) and is explicitly known as a blowjob bar. It’s a small place, but they have some of the youngest and hottest girls on the street. King Kong even has a dimly lit section in the back where the girls can drop to their knees while other customers barely notice. A blowjob here is roughly ฿800, and if you change your mind and want full sex, they’ll take you upstairs for around ฿1,300 short-time. Right next door is Click Bar (cheekily referred to as “Lick Bar” by dropping the C) – another spot geared towards oral fun. Click Bar lets you sit by the entrance, watching the Soi 6 mayhem, and when you’re ready, a cutie will service you on the couch or in a back room. The vibe on Soi 6 BJ bars is a bit exhibitionist – you might literally see another guy getting a sneaky BJ on a nearby couch (shields up, but still). Other notable BJ-friendly spots on Soi 6 include My Friend You Bar and Full Moon Bar. Full Moon Bar, in particular, has earned a reputation as one of the best on the soi for oral action. They usually escort you to a little room on the ground floor for the deed (rather than doing it in the open bar), which some customers appreciate for privacy. Full Moon’s girls are attractive and playful, and the room even has mirrors on the wall and ceiling for optimal viewing angles! Expect to pay a bit more here – around ฿900 for a BJ (they include a room fee). One advantage of Soi 6 is it’s thriving all day long – you can get a nooner BJ at 1pm when many other places are closed. Just remember on Soi 6 the ladies can be a bit aggressive in pulling customers; if one drags you in and you’re not impressed, it’s okay to politely decline and try another bar. But with so many eager providers, you’re almost guaranteed to find a satisfying blowjob with a pretty Thai girl on this street.

Bar girls lounging outside Full Moon Bar on Soi 6 in Pattaya. Bars like this are known to offer quick oral services on-site – you can see why Pattaya is considered a BJ paradise!

• East Pattaya “Gentlemen’s Clubs” (Club 4, 007, Pirates, etc.): Pattaya has a subculture of gentlemen’s clubs on the outskirts (often referred to as the “Darkside”) that have taken the BJ bar concept to a new level. Notably, a cluster of them in a residential area of East Pattaya (near Soi Bongkot) are run by some innovative expats. Club 4 is the shining star among them – run by a French owner, this club provides an exceptionally comfortable environment for oral pleasure. Think private seating areas with actual mattresses, curtains you can draw for privacy, and surprisingly gorgeous girls (some ex-gogo dancers who prefer sucking to dancing). It’s often hailed as the best blowjob bar in Pattaya by those in the know. Despite the upscale feel, prices remain around ฿800 for a BJ (and about ฿1,300 if you want to turn it into a short-time/full service). Right next door to Club 4 is 007 Club, another French-owned BJ lounge with a similar setup of curtained booths. The girls at 007 are also stunners and provide enthusiastic service (they tend to wait for you to make the move, rather than hustling, which many find refreshing). And if that’s not enough, there’s Pirates Hostess Club adjacent to those, offering a half-moon bar counter where guys literally sit, drink beer, and get blown by girls under the counter – yes, it’s as wild as it sounds. Pirates also has little nooks at the back for more private encounters. One more in this area is Carré Blanc (sometimes just called Le Club), known as the “naughtiest” because the girls might perform right out in the open or let others watch (as the saying goes, they’re very open-minded here). Don’t be shocked if a pair of ladies at Carré Blanc tag-team you in the middle of the bar! Prices in all these clubs are roughly uniform – ฿800–฿1000 for BJ, ฿1300–฿1500 for full service. They usually have reasonably priced drinks (beer ~฿85–฿100) and lady drinks around ฿130. The only downside is these spots are a bit out of the main tourist zones; you’ll need a short motorbike taxi ride to reach them (but many punters happily make the pilgrimage). If you have time, visiting a gentlemen’s club BJ bar is a must to see how Pattaya continually redefines adult entertainment.
• Odd Ones Out: Aside from the clusters above, Pattaya has other random BJ opportunities. Bar de la Poste on Soi Lengkee (near Buakhao) is one – a French-owned bar with a telephone booth entrance and a pseudo-Parisian theme. They advertise in expat magazines and greet you with a chorus of “bonjour/ sawadee ka” from all the girls, but reviews say the ladies aren’t the youngest or prettiest. Price ~฿800 as usual. There’s also a quirky place called Telephone Bar on a small street nicknamed Soi Batman (Sukhumvit-Pattaya 46/3) – here you ring a doorbell inside a British-style red phone box to enter. It’s cozy and novel, but again the talent can be hit-or-miss. Many of Pattaya’s regular bars and go-gos will also accommodate a request for a BJ in lieu of take-out; some go-go bars have back rooms or short-time rooms where a dancer might give you oral relief if she’s not keen on full sex. And finally, never underestimate the massage parlors – plenty of so-called “soapies” or oil massage shops in Pattaya will happily provide a sloppy blowjob as part of the session. In fact, many guys opt for a massage + BJ combo for ฿1000 at traditional parlors. (More on that in the Phuket section next.)

Pattaya BJ Bar prices and etiquette: In Pattaya, a blowjob is typically ฿700–฿1000 depending on the venue and attractiveness of the girl. This usually includes the room if one is needed. A bar fine isn’t usually applicable for on-premises service (unlike taking a girl out); you just pay the fixed service fee to the counter. It’s always wise to confirm the price with the mamasan or the girl before the fun, to avoid any misunderstandings. The customer experience in Pattaya is very customer-friendly – girls are generally not pushy about drinks when they know you’re there for a short visit, although it’s nice to buy your performer a ladydrink (฿100–฿150) so she earns a little extra commission. As always, be polite and clean. Pattaya girls see countless men, so stand out by showering (many bars have a shower you can use, especially if you’re going upstairs for full service – take advantage of it), smelling good, and treating the lady with respect. If you want something special like deepthroat or finishing on her face, ask gently (“Can you take it deep?” or “you okay if I finish on chest or face?”) – don’t just surprise her. Many will accommodate if they’re comfortable and you’ve been nice (some clubs like Club 4 have girls that pride themselves on taking it all and making a mess in a fun way!). A tip of ฿200 for enthusiastic service will make her day – and encourage her to welcome you even more eagerly when you return (and trust us, you will be tempted to return – Pattaya can be addicting that way).

Phuket’s Scene – Blowjob Bars in the Pearl of the Andaman

Phuket, particularly Patong Beach, is another Thai party hotspot – but what about BJ bars there? The scene is smaller than Pattaya’s, but there is at least one notable venue and plenty of alternatives. Historically, Patong had a hidden BJ bar often referred to simply as Lolita’s Phuket, following the brand name from Bangkok and Pattaya. It used to be located on Bangla Road’s Soi Sea Dragon (a lane of go-go bars) up a secret stairway behind a nightclub. That bar went under the radar with no sign (due to police scrutiny), but word-of-mouth kept it alive. Today, the good news is that a BJ-focused establishment is indeed operating in Patong – and it’s actually branded as Lolita Phuket. In 2023, Lolita’s opened officially on Bangla Road (entrance through Pink Paradise bar), bringing the blowjob bar concept back to Phuket’s busiest nightlife street. The venue is marketed as a “gentlemen’s club” on social media, but patrons confirm it’s essentially a BJ bar with a lounge setup. You can grab a drink, chat with friendly Thai ladies, and then indulge in a private oral session. Pricing in Phuket’s BJ bar is similar to elsewhere: roughly ฿800–฿1000 for a blowjob is the going rate. One forum post from a few years back mentioned 700 baht for 20 minutes or 1000 baht for 30 minutes at the Bangla BJ bar – expect something in that ballpark today (inflation in Thailand’s adult industry is surprisingly low). The girls in Phuket’s Lolita are a mix of locals and some who rotate from Bangkok or Pattaya for work stints. They tend to be relatively young and fun-loving (hey, it’s a beach town after all). The atmosphere is more lighthearted party than secretive – sometimes even group games or shots at the bar before or after services. If you’re in Patong and craving a specialized BJ experience, head to Lolita’s on Bangla and ask the staff; they’ll guide you upstairs to heaven.

Now, aside from that dedicated spot, Phuket doesn’t have multiple BJ-only bars. But fear not – oral action is easy to find. Many go-go bars on Bangla Road have curtain-partitioned couches or back rooms; if a dancer or hostess likes you (and you tip her well), she might give you a blowjob in the club itself to save time (some smaller go-gos are known for this under-the-table fun, though it’s technically not “allowed”). Additionally, happy ending massage parlors are everywhere in Patong. As one guide notes, late at night on Beach Road or Rat-U-Thit Road, massage girls will outright offer a BJ for 700–800 baht on the spot, no full massage needed. This can actually be a great, hassle-free way to get oral relief. Just pick a pretty massage lady who gives you the eye, and negotiate for “blowjob only.” Usually, they’ll lead you into the massage shop’s private room and take care of you with enthusiasm (it’s easy money for them compared to a full hour massage). So in Phuket, even if you can’t find a labeled BJ bar, your options are open: the one dedicated venue (Lolita’s), any number of willing freelancers or bar girls (who might prefer a quick blowjob deal instead of going to your hotel), or massage girls as a convenient alternative.

A few tips for Phuket: The island is a bit more expensive overall, so don’t be too shocked if a girl asks 1000 baht for a BJ – it’s still within a normal range here. Bargaining is fine (many will settle at 800), but if she’s exceptionally attractive, a higher fee may be worth it. Phuket’s party crowd is international and mixed, so etiquette is key. Be a gentleman even in an erotic scenario. Also, Phuket police can be stricter at times; BJ bars operate carefully. Avoid causing a scene or drawing unwanted attention (e.g., don’t stumble out of a BJ bar drunk and pants half-zipped – take a moment to compose yourself!). Overall, while Phuket’s blowjob scene isn’t as vast as Pattaya’s, it certainly exists and can be tons of fun in the tropical beach atmosphere.

Why Men Love Blowjobs – The Physical and Psychological Benefits

Blowjobs are universally loved by men – but why exactly do guys find oral sex so irresistible? The answer lies in a mix of intense physical pleasure and powerful psychological factors. First, on a purely physical level, the sensations of a warm mouth, soft lips, and swirling tongue on the penis can be more thrilling than intercourse. The penis (especially the head/glans and frenulum underside) has thousands of nerve endings; a skilled BJ can stimulate these in rapid, focused ways that hands or vaginas can’t always match. Techniques like deepthroating (where she takes the penis deep into her throat) add a unique tightness and depth of warmth that drives many men wild. The result is often a faster and stronger orgasm – hence why blowjobs are a go-to for quick stress relief. In fact, a good blowjob can release a rush of endorphins and oxytocin for the man, leading to immediate relaxation and reduced anxiety. (No wonder some jokingly call it a remedy for headaches or bad moods!)

Psychologically, there’s a lot at play too. Many men find blowjobs highly arousing because it involves a partner actively “servicing” them, which can feel very stimulating to the male ego. It’s the one sexual act where the man can truly just lie back and receive pleasure without exerting much effort. That feeling of being pampered or even worshipped does wonders for confidence and pleasure. Additionally, the visual element is significant: the sight of one’s partner between your legs, making eye contact upward (if she does), and seeing your penis disappear into her mouth is an incredibly erotic image burned into the male psyche. There’s also an element of trust and intimacy – she’s doing something quite vulnerable (no hiding anything when you’re face-first in someone’s crotch!). This act of giving can make a man feel trusted and desired in return. In relationships, oral sex often strengthens bonds; a man might interpret his partner’s eagerness to go down on him as a sign of love, care, and openness.

Let’s not forget specific benefits too: Frequent ejaculation (whether via blowjobs or other means) has been linked in some studies to reduced prostate cancer risk in men – so there’s a health angle! Emotionally, after a long day, many men say that a slow, loving BJ from their partner calms them and helps them sleep better than any glass of whiskey could. It’s a form of stress release that’s more fun than a back rub and more satisfying than meditation (though arguably, it’s a form of meditation – focusing solely on pleasure in the moment). Moreover, in casual encounters like at Thai BJ bars, blowjobs are often seen as a “safer” choice than full sex – there’s no risk of pregnancy and generally a lower risk of certain STDs when compared to unprotected intercourse (though one should still be cautious, of course). This little bit of relative safety can let a guy enjoy the experience with slightly less worry, which in turn enhances the enjoyment.

Lastly, let’s face it: many men simply fantasize about blowjobs from a young age due to cultural hype and pornographic emphasis. It’s portrayed as the ultimate act of a partner’s willingness to please. So when it happens in real life – especially a great one – it lives up to the hype and then some. In Thailand’s context, imagine a scenario: you’re sitting in a comfy chair, a beautiful Thai woman is smiling up at you as she gently licks and teases, you feel the tropical breeze (or the cool A/C) and hear soft music… in that moment, all your worries evaporate. You feel like a king. That psychological high is every bit as rewarding as the physical orgasm that follows. No wonder blowjobs are so universally loved – they satisfy body and mind alike.

How to Give and Receive the Perfect Blowjob (Technique & Etiquette)

Whether you’re the one receiving or giving oral pleasure, there are some golden rules and tips to ensure the experience is amazing for both parties. Here we’ll cover technique and etiquette from both angles, tailored especially to those experiencing this in Thailand’s playful environment (though the advice applies anywhere).

For Men (Receiving a Blowjob):
Getting a blowjob might seem like the most passive role, but there are still things you can do to make it better for you and her:

• Hygiene is Key: Before you indulge in any BJ – especially in a bar or massage setting – make sure you’re clean down there. In Thai BJ bars, girls will often offer you a wipe or even a shower beforehand. Take it! Being fresh (no sweat or strong odors) will make her more enthusiastic to go deep and take her time. It’s respectful and will result in a better experience (nobody likes a funky smell during intimacy). Trimmed pubic hair is also appreciated; it avoids tickling her nose or causing choking on a stray hair.
• Communication & Consent: If you have certain desires, communicate them. Want her to use more tongue on the tip? Gently tell her or guide her. If you’re in a Thai bar and there’s a language barrier, simple phrases or gestures help (guiding her hand or head sensitively, not forcefully). Always ask before CIM or COF – don’t assume. A polite “Can I come in your mouth?” with a please and a smile can go a long way. Many Thai providers will say yes if they’re okay with it (and possibly expect a tip). If she says no or looks hesitant, have a backup plan (like finishing with a handjob or on your stomach, etc.). Never push a woman’s head down too roughly; it can trigger her gag reflex in a bad way or make her feel panic. Let her control the depth unless you’ve established she’s comfortable with you gently thrusting.
• Relax and Enjoy, But Don’t Be Too Silent: As a receiver, try to relax your body – especially your hips and thighs – so you’re not inadvertently tensing up. This makes it easier for her to bob and move. While relaxing, also respond to her moves: moan a little, say encouraging words (“Oh that feels so good” or in Thai you can say “suay mak” meaning very good/beautiful, or “di mak” meaning feels great). Positive feedback turns a good BJ into a great one, because the giver knows you’re enjoying it and will put even more heart into it. If something feels incredible (say she’s swirling her tongue just right), let her know verbally or with a louder groan – she’ll likely keep doing it. Conversely, if something is not to your liking (too much teeth? too soft?), you can gently suggest a change: guide her hand to grip you if you want combined hand-and-mouth, or say “a little softer” if she’s overzealous. Keep the communication sexy, not critical.
• Etiquette in Bars: In a Thai BJ bar setting, remember these ladies are professionals but also people. A little respect goes a long way. Don’t treat her like an object just because it’s a transaction. A bit of chit-chat before or after (“What’s your name? You’re very pretty. How long have you worked here?”) can make the session more personable and pleasant. When finishing, try not to make a huge mess unless that’s been agreed on (for instance, cum on face should only happen if she’s really okay with it; surprising her with that might get you blacklisted). It’s common courtesy to tip after a great blowjob – besides the fee. Even a few hundred baht or a small gift (some guys bring chocolates or souvenirs for favorite girls) is appreciated. Finally, never complain about the service fee after – you know what you signed up for. Pay with a smile. This ensures a warm welcome if you ever return or even later that night for round two.

For Women (or Givers) – Tips to Blow His Mind:
Now, if you’re reading this as someone who will be giving the blowjob (perhaps a curious partner, or even a provider looking for pointers), here are technique tips that men rave about. Thai bar girls are often quite adept at these, which is why so many men fall in love with their skills!

• Build Anticipation: Don’t rush straight to full throttle sucking. Start slow – kiss around his thighs, lick gently along the shaft, maybe plant a soft kiss on the tip without taking it in yet. Use your hands to stroke him lightly while you tease with your tongue. This drives men crazy and heightens sensitivity. Some Thai BJ experts will even do a playful technique: holding the base, flicking their tongue on the frenulum (that sensitive underside of the head) rapidly – it’s a small move that can make a big impact.
• Wet and Warm: A blowjob feels best when it’s very wet. Don’t shy away from saliva – the wetter, the better. If you need, sip some water beforehand or even use a flavored lubricant (in Thai bars, some girls discreetly have mints or candy to create a cooling sensation). Keep your mouth warm; some women swirl a bit of warm water in their mouth first if it’s cold AC environment. The combination of warmth and slipperiness mimics the sensations of intercourse and even enhances them. If you need a breather, use your hand in a twisting motion along his slick shaft to maintain the wet stimulation.
• Use Your Tongue and Lips Creatively: Variety is key. Men love when you alternate techniques – try swirling your tongue around the head for a while (as if licking an ice cream cone, but focus on that ridge and frenulum). Then you can purse your lips tighter and slide your mouth down halfway, sucking with cheeks hollowed a bit. Mix in some gentle sucking pulses – like you’re sipping a thick milkshake, create suction as you pull back. Another popular move is taking him deep (as deep as you comfortably can), then humming or moaning – the vibrations feel amazing. Remember the balls too! If you’re comfortable, licking or lightly sucking his testicles can send him into ecstasy. Many Thai providers do a “ball massage” with one hand while blowing the client – basically fondling and very lightly squeezing in rhythm, which men adore.
• Pace and Eye Contact: Start slow, then gradually increase your speed and intensity as you sense he’s getting closer. If you maintain eye contact (looking up at him with sultry eyes while his member is in your mouth), it’s incredibly erotic for the man. It creates a connection and also a visual turn-on. As you get a feel for his responses (is he breathing faster? gripping the sheets? saying “Oh god!”?), use those cues to either back off a second (tease him) or go all in for the finish. Some guys love a bit of edging (bringing them close then slowing down) – it makes the climax stronger. You can even pull off right before he’s about to cum, and tease the tip with your tongue, then dive back in. It’s playful and torturous in the best way.
• Finishing Flourish: If you’re okay with swallowing (CIM), know that many men find that extremely sexy. It’s not just the physical feeling, but the visual of you taking it and swallowing that’s a huge turn-on. However, it’s entirely your choice – never feel forced. If you prefer not to, a classy way is to finish him with your hand or let him release on your tongue then spit discretely into a tissue. If you do allow him to cum in your mouth, you can earn big points by maintaining suction through his orgasm – keep gently sucking or at least keep your lips around the head as he spurts. Most men will practically see stars if you do this because the pulsating feeling combined with your warm mouth sends them over the moon. Just be ready for potentially a lot of fluid (staying hydrated helps it taste milder – Thai girls often drink pineapple juice for a sweeter effect, as per urban legend!).
• Aftercare: Once he’s done, don’t just stand up and walk away immediately (unless it’s an anonymous quickie and that’s the expectation). If it’s your partner or even a client in a bar, a few moments of gentle cleaning and cuddling are golden. Wipe him off with a tissue or warm towel, give the tip a soft kiss, and maybe lay your head on his thigh for a second and smile up at him. This soft aftertouch makes the whole encounter feel more intimate and satisfying. In Thai culture, showing care after the act (even a transactional one) is common – like bringing a warm towel, or offering a sip of water. It’s those little touches that turn a great blowjob into an unforgettable one for the man.

Etiquette and Safety for Givers: If you’re not using a condom, be aware of STD risks. In professional settings, many choose to go uncovered for client satisfaction, but using antiseptic mouthwash after and not doing BJs if you have any mouth sores is wise. For personal partners, trust and testing are key. Also, protect your own comfort – communicate if your jaw gets tired (take a hand-break, he won’t mind as long as you continue stimulation) or if something he’s doing (like pushing too deep) is uncomfortable. A good lover will happily adjust. Remember, a blowjob is supposed to be enjoyable for you to give as well – taking pride in your skill and seeing him lose control can be very empowering and arousing.

Lastly, have fun with it! The best BJs, according to many men, are from partners who genuinely seem to enjoy doing it. In Thailand, you’ll often notice the bargirls giggling, being playful, or even appearing to get turned on during the act – that hugely enhances the mood. So whether you’re a girlfriend looking to please your man or a working girl aiming for a happy customer (and maybe a repeat client), bringing positive energy and a sense of humor (yes, sexy time can be funny too!) will make the experience wonderful for both of you.

Final Thoughts

Blowjob bars in Thailand offer a unique, thrilling experience that you simply won’t find elsewhere. From Bangkok’s hidden little salons to Pattaya’s smorgasbord of BJ delights and Phuket’s tropical twist, there’s something for every flavor of oral fixation. We’ve covered the what, where, how much, and even the how-to. As always in the Land of Smiles, remember to keep respect at the forefront: respect for the workers who fulfill these pleasures, respect for local customs (discretion is valued), and respect for your own limits. If you treat everyone with a smile and enjoy these adventures with a sense of humor and openness, you’re bound to have not just the best blowjob in Thailand, but perhaps the best of your life.

So go ahead – explore these BJ bars armed with knowledge and confidence. May your beers be cold, your encounters hot, and may you leave Thailand with stories (and sensations) to grin about for years to come. In the end, the psychological and physical benefits will speak for themselves – stress relieved, ego boosted, body blissfully relaxed. Safe travels and happy endings!