Two very different styles, and every guy seems to have a strong preference — even if they don’t admit it. Some men swear nothing beats full commitment and deep action, while others say slow teasing, eye contact, and build-up are what actually make the experience unforgettable.
What’s your take?
Which style keeps you coming back?
Does it change depending on the girl or the venue?
Are BJ bars better for one style, and massage parlors better for the other?
And does “technique” matter more than chemistry?
Share your honest thoughts — this topic will probably be the most debated one in the forum.
For me it’s deepthroat every time. Teasing is nice for the first minute, but it never becomes memorable. A girl who can confidently take it deeper — even if it’s not perfect — instantly stands out. Bangkok has a few who can do it, but I’ve found Pattaya to be better overall. It’s rare, but when you find one, she becomes your go to.
Deepthroat looks impressive, but teasing is what actually gets guys hooked. Slow build-up, hands, eye contact, knowing exactly when to speed up or slow down — that’s what makes you remember the girl. Some of the best teasing I’ve had came from massage parlor girls who aren’t “stars” but know how to play the mental game. Technique > depth.
Honestly, either can be amazing or terrible depending on her attitude. I’ve had girls in Pattaya attempt deepthroat with zero enthusiasm, and it felt pointless. I’ve also had teasing sessions where the girl was clearly bored. The ones that make you come back are the girls who are actually into the moment, whatever style they use. Motivation makes a bigger difference than technique.
From what I’ve seen:
BJ bars = more deepthroat attempts
Massage parlors = better teasing
BJ bars move fast and girls try to impress quickly, so depth happens more often. Massage girls usually take their time and build it up slowly. Different environments, different strengths. If you want technique and pacing, massage. If you want the “wow factor,” BJ bars.
I’ve had deepthroat that felt like a stunt and teasing that felt like torture. The thing that actually becomes addictive is connection. When a girl reads your reactions, adjusts naturally, and looks like she enjoys what she’s doing — that’s what pulls guys back. Whether she teases or goes deep is secondary. The best ones combine both at the right time.
