Hey fellow mongers, I've been hitting up bj bars across Thailand and SE Asia for years now—places like Pattaya's Walking Street spots or those hidden gems in Manila—and it's shaped how I approach dating entirely. For me, it's simple: if a girl won't go for a deepthroat blowjob right on the first night, with full commitment to cim or cof, she's out. No second chances. Why? Because in this game, especially when you're bouncing between blow job bars in Bangkok or Phnom Penh, you learn quick that hesitation means she's holding back, and life's too short for half assed experiences. I've had epic nights starting with a deep throat session that sets the tone for everything else—raw, intense, no games. It's not just about the act; it's about that instant chemistry where she owns it. Share your thoughts—anyone else enforce this rule, or am I the outlier?
Totally get it, OP. Last trip to Phuket, I skipped the usual dating apps and headed straight to a bj bar off Bangla Road. Picked up a freelancer who nailed deepthroat from the jump, finishing with cim like a pro. Set the bar high—no regrets ditching the ones who tease but don't deliver. In SE Asia, blowjobs like that are everywhere if you know where to look.
Dude, that's harsh but fair. I've dated a few from blow job scenes in Vietnam, and yeah, if she balks at deep throat on night one, it's a red flag. Had one in Hanoi who went all in with cof—best connection ever. But enforcing it as a rule? Might miss out on slow burners who warm up to killer blowjobs later. Still, respect the no-exceptions vibe.
Haha, OP, you're speaking my language. In Bangkok's Nana Plaza bj bars, it's deepthroat or bust for me too. Nothing beats that first night blow job where she takes it all, cim included. Dated one who started hesitant but learned quick—now she's my go to. But enforcing it upfront weeds out the pros from the posers in Thailand's scene.
Mixed feelings here. Love the bj bars in Makati, but dating wise, I give 'em a pass if the deep throat doesn't happen immediately. Had a girl pull off an insane blowjob with cof on the first meet—hooked ever since. Your rule makes sense in SE Asia's fast paced spots, though; too many options to waste time on shallow efforts.
OP, you're onto something. After years in Cambodia's blow job bars, I adopted a similar stance—deepthroat on the first night seals the deal, especially with that cim finish. It's about trust and vibe. Skipped a few who promised but flaked, and never looked back. Thailand amps it up, but SE Asia overall delivers if you set boundaries early.
