I usually don’t ask — I let the blowjob play out and watch her body language. Some girls in Bangkok are all business: quick oral, no eye contact, definitely no CIM. But others… man, they go for it. Full deepthroat, sloppy as hell, and when you’re close, they just lock eyes and finish the job in their mouth like it’s nothing.

Had a soapy massage girl in Huai Khwang who gave me the best blow job of my life — no hands, just pure suction and tongue work. Didn’t ask anything, just swallowed like a pro. No drama, no towel. Felt like I owed her a tip and a thank-you card.

So yeah, if it’s oral sex in Thailand — I say don’t ask. Just read the moment. Sometimes, silence is golden.

I used to ask, but honestly… it kills the vibe. Now I just wait and see. If the blowjob is lazy or half-hearted, I already know CIM’s off the table. But if she’s going deep, using both hands, spit everywhere, and humming while she’s at it — there’s a good chance she’s into it.

One freelancer near Nana gave me a slow, wet blow job for almost 20 minutes, no rush at all. When I finished, she took every drop, smiled, and just said, “Good, huh?” No cleanup, no complaints. Pure oral sex heaven.

Some girls treat it like a chore, others treat it like an art. You learn real fast who’s who.

If you’re with a freelancer or bar girl, always ask first—“CIM okay?” goes a long way. Some charge extra, some say no, some surprise you and take it like a champ. Don’t assume. Especially in Bangkok BJ bars or Angeles City massage shops, rules vary by girl, not by venue. Ask with a smile, not a demand.

Always ask first—especially in Thailand BJ bars or with a freelancer. Some girls will offer CIM for an extra fee, others will shut it down hard if you don’t bring it up. Nothing kills the vibe faster than bad timing and no warning. Pro move: ask casually during the price talk—“you okay with finish in mouth?” Saves drama later.

If you’re getting a blowjob in Thailand—especially a BBBJ from a freelancer or ladyboy—always ask first about CIM. Some are totally cool with it, some charge extra, and some will freak out if you don’t give a heads-up. Personally, I always ask—ruins the mood way more if you don’t and she spits it out angry. But when it’s a yes? Nothing beats finishing deep with a slow swallow and a smile.

With oral sex, CIM is one of those things you really shouldn’t gamble on — especially in Thailand. Some girls are fine with a blowjob and swallow, others will do deepthroat but pull off before you finish, and a few will only offer a hand finish after oral. I always ask first. Takes five seconds, avoids the awkward “WTF are you doing?” moment when you’re seconds away from climax.

In my experience, if you’re clear about wanting CIM, they’ll either agree for a small tip, or tell you it’s off-limits. Saves you from that end-of-session frustration where the blowjob was perfect, the deepthroat was mind-blowing, but the ending was… not what you pictured.

For me, a good blowjob is all about knowing the rules before you start. CIM, no CIM, swallow, spit — every girl’s boundaries are different. I’ve had deepthroat sessions in Pattaya where the girl happily took it all and swallowed like a champ, and others where she pulled away the second I got close. Asking first might kill a bit of the mystery, but it saves you from ruining an otherwise perfect oral sex session. Nothing worse than a mind-blowing BJ ending in an awkward tissue handoff.

CIM is one of those things that can totally change the experience, but it’s also a big gray area depending on the girl, the bar, and the city. In Bangkok, I’ve had girls in Nana Plaza who were totally cool with it if you tipped extra, but only after I asked first. In Pattaya’s Soi 6, some girls practically expect it, while others get offended if you even try. Phuket tends to sit in the middle—more professional parlors usually set clear boundaries up front, but freelancers on Bangla Road are often more flexible if you build some trust.

Personally, I always ask first. It saves you from that awkward moment where she pulls away at the last second or gets upset. Some guys like to just “let it happen,” but in Thailand, etiquette matters. A girl might surprise you with enthusiasm one night, but another might blacklist you with the mamasan if you cross the line without permission.

End of the day, CIM (or no CIM) is less about the act itself and more about respect and communication. If you’re clear, you usually get what you want—and often with a smile.

How do you guys play it? Do you go full Bangkok bold, Pattaya wild, or Phuket polite?