Let’s cut through the ego for a second.
Is it really about the sex… or is it about the way she looks at you? The way she calls you “baby,” laughs at your jokes, makes you feel like a king — for an hour or a night?
For some guys, the action is just the cherry on top. For others, it’s the whole point.
So what about you?
When you’re with an escort or sugar baby, what are you really paying for — the body, the vibe, or the illusion?
Honestly? Most of the time, it’s not about the sex — it’s the attention, the vibe, the little illusion that someone actually wants to be with you for a few hours.
Let’s be real — the sex can be decent, sometimes even great, but rarely mind-blowing. What makes it work is the GFE layer — the “hi baby,” the smile, the drink, the skin-on-skin without pressure.
It’s the feeling of being wanted without the mess of dating.
So yeah… I’d say the attention is 70%, the sex 30% — and I’m not ashamed to admit it.