Not all freelancers are trouble — but some come with serious warning signs. From girls who dodge questions to sudden price changes or weird “friends” waiting outside, the red flags are real if you know what to look for. So let’s help each other out: what are the biggest red flags you’ve seen when dealing with freelancers in Thailand? Share your close calls, hard lessons, and how to spot trouble before it walks through your hotel door.
Top red flag? Avoid any girl who refuses to discuss price or services upfront. The “we talk later” line always leads to drama. Another is when she seems way too eager or clingy before anything even happens — that’s often a setup for emotional manipulation or theft. Watch for drug use — if she’s jittery, glassy-eyed, or disappears to the bathroom constantly, walk away. Also avoid freelancers who won’t let you choose the hotel — control is key. And finally, if she starts talking about financial problems or family emergencies within minutes? That's not chemistry — that's a hustle.
Red flag #1: She brings a "friend" along to the meetup. Whether it’s a bodyguard, a fake sister, or a “wait downstairs” guy — this usually ends badly. Freelancers in Thailand who operate solo are safer and more trustworthy. Another sign? Changing prices mid-session, or suddenly adding “extra charges.” That’s scammer 101. And always avoid girls who refuse to show ID at hotel check-in — some hotels will require it, and if she refuses, it means she’s hiding something. Trust your gut. If it feels sketchy, it probably is.