What’s your #1 tip for a go-go bar first-timer?

Walk in slow, sit in the shadows, and don’t order anything until you’ve scoped the place for at least 2 minutes.

First-timers always blow it by:

• Sitting too close to the stage (tip trap)

• Letting the first girl who grabs them take control

• Or worse — buying a drink before checking prices

My #1 tip? Watch how the girls interact with each other.
If they’re laughing, dancing, and actually enjoying the night — that’s a good bar. If they look dead inside? Take your drink and move on fast.

Oh, and never barfine within the first 30 minutes. Trust me.

If it’s your first time, do not sit at the stage. It’s tempting, but that’s where the heat is. Girls will swarm you, ask for drinks, and you’ll burn through your budget before you even finish your beer. Start at the back, observe the vibe, and then move forward if you’re ready. Also, make sure you know the drink prices before ordering for a girl. Some places charge outrageous rates and don’t post the prices clearly.

Don’t go in drunk. I know it sounds counterintuitive, but being sharp helps you notice the details—like how the girls act, how the bar staff treats you, whether the mamasan is pushy, etc. Also, be polite to the security guys—they often have insider tips or can help you avoid shady stuff. And last tip: bring cash. Many bars still don’t like cards, and cash gives you more control.

I used to go thinking I could budget it like any other night out—big mistake. Now I treat it like a mini Vegas. I bring what I’m willing to burn, and when it’s gone, I walk. Some nights I end up spending less than 2,000 baht, and other nights it’s more like 6,000. The trick is to never chase anything—if the vibe isn’t right, move on. There are plenty of bars.

Don’t rush. Order a drink, sit back, and watch how the girls act when they’re not on stage. The ones dancing half-heartedly? Skip ‘em. Look for the girl who’s still having fun when no one’s watching — that’s who you want in your lap.

Don’t pick the first girl who jumps on your lap. Sip your drink, scan the lineup, and wait for a real connection. Desperation leads to regret—go in slow, leave satisfied.

Sit near the back at first so you can observe the vibe. Not all bars are created equal. Some are pushy, others chill. Watch how the girls treat customers before picking your playmate.

There’s no such thing as a quick visit to Nana Plaza.

First rule: don’t be a cheap drunk. If you walk into a gogo bar in Thailand expecting a free show and acting entitled, the girls will ignore you or worse — label you a time waster. Buy a drink, tip politely, and engage with one or two girls — not all of them. Ask questions, make eye contact, and stay cool. The girls will spot a desperate customer from across the room. If you want great service and maybe a special invite to a "secret room" — treat her like a person, not a purchase.

Always sit near the stage but not directly in front. It shows interest without desperation. Don’t grab — ever. Touching is allowed after consent, not before. Want better treatment? Tip the DJ or the mamasan — they’ll suddenly “find” the hottest girl for you. Be polite but firm when negotiating prices, and don’t be afraid to walk away if something feels off. The best gogo experiences in Bangkok or Pattaya come when you balance charm, respect, and street smarts. And don’t forget to smile — it goes a long way.

Don’t sit in the front row right away.

It’s tempting—those seats are closest to the stage, you get a perfect view of everything. But if you plant yourself there as a first-timer, you're a glowing target. The girls will swarm you, the mama-san will push drinks, and you might get overwhelmed before you even understand what’s going on.

Start at the side or a couple rows back. Order a drink, observe the vibe, watch how other guys interact, and see which girls catch your eye. Then when you're ready, move up front or signal a girl you choose—not one who chooses you.

Control the pace, don’t be rushed, and never feel obligated to buy a drink just because a girl sits down. You're the customer—run your night, don’t let it run you.