In my experience, it totally depends on the girl — and how much she likes you. I’ve had bar girls in Pattaya fake moans and go totally passive, even when I tried to be gentle. But in Bangkok? Different story.

Met a freelancer near Soi Cowboy who looked sweet and quiet, but once we got to the hotel, she wanted it rough. We’re talking hair pulling, deep pounding, dirty talk in broken English — the works. She even asked me to choke her lightly and slap her ass harder. Said, “I like sexy pain.”

That shocked me, honestly. I thought Thai girls preferred soft, slow sex. But with the right vibe and some trust? Some of them really let go.

I still start gentle — but I watch for signals. When they start pushing back or saying “harder,” that’s the green light.

Phuket surprised me the most. I was with a massage girl near Patong, full service setup. She started off super soft — gentle BJ, slow strokes, almost girlfriend style. I figured she was the type who liked it sweet and slow.

But once I flipped her over and picked up the pace, she started moaning louder and pushing her hips back into me. She even grabbed my hand and put it around her throat. Didn’t expect that at all.

Ended up being one of the roughest sessions I’ve ever had in Thailand — hair pulling, ass smacking, full pounding doggy. Afterward she laughed and said, “I don’t like soft man.”

Lesson? Don’t assume based on how they look or how they start. Some girls love it rough — they just wait for you to bring it out.

Depends where you find her. Bar girls in Pattaya or freelancers in Bangkok can surprise you—they’ll ask for it rough, slap included. But a massage girl or Tinder date? Start gentle. Thai culture leans soft and sweet, but behind closed doors, some girls love to flip that script. Just read her body, not your fantasies.

Depends on the girl—but many Thai girls actually love it rough once they trust you. Start slow, build the vibe, then pull hair, spank, grab hips, and go deep. Dirty talk turns them on too, even if their English isn’t perfect. That said, don’t assume—some just want soft moans and slow strokes. Best sex happens when you read her body, not just her words.

In my experience with Thai girls, it’s all about reading the vibe. Some absolutely love it rough — hair pulling, spanking, deepthroat during oral — but you can’t assume that’s what she’s into. Plenty prefer the slow, sensual approach, especially on a first session.

Whether it’s a gogo girl, a soapy massage companion, or a regular barfine, I always start gentle. If she’s into it, she’ll start pushing back, grabbing you harder, or making it clear she wants more intensity. Thailand has girls who will go wild once the chemistry is right, but if you come in like a pornstar on round one, you risk killing the mood fast.

Thai girls aren’t a one-size-fits-all deal. I’ve had bar girls in Pattaya who begged for it rough — hard thrusts, spanking, even a bit of choking — and others who wanted the whole session slow, kissing, and gentle touches. Best move? Start soft, build the heat, and let her show you how far she wants to go. The ones who like it rough will make it very obvious once you’ve got them in the right mood.