I’ve been coming to Thailand for over a decade. What used to feel exotic, thrilling, even emotional — now feels like ordering off a menu at McDonald's.
Everything is efficient. In and out. No connection. No edge. Whether it’s a soapy massage, BJ bar, or gogo girl takeout… it’s starting to feel mechanical.
Am I just getting jaded, or has the whole scene lost something over time?
The first few trips were mind-blowing because everything felt taboo, spontaneous, and wild. But after dozens of paid encounters, even the best blowjobs feel predictable. Fast sex, fast money, fast goodbye — just like fast food: tasty but forgettable.
It’s not just you. The gogo girls are burned out, the massage girls are overbooked, and the BJ bars move clients like a factory line. The thrill’s still there for first-timers, but for repeat visitors, it’s starting to feel like processed pleasure — cheap, fast, and soulless.
You're not wrong. The industry’s optimized now — they know exactly how to extract the baht and bounce. It’s like “Happy Ending, Medium Coke, No Eye Contact.” You can still find magic, but it takes effort, like hunting down street food in a tourist mall.