Let’s be honest — do you go bare, or wrap it up even for oral? Any close calls or tips on negotiating safety without killing the mood?
I know I should, but I don’t. Never feels the same. I ask the girl not to go too deep or scratch with her teeth, and I rinse after. Probably dumb, but it’s hard to turn down a sloppy BJ without a barrier. Risk vs pleasure, and I usually let pleasure win.
With random street freelancers? Always. With bar girls I trust, usually not. It depends on the vibe. If she looks off or the place feels sketchy, I wrap it. Had one scare already, not doing that again.
Honestly? No — and I know that’s a risk. Most guys don’t. The chance of catching something from oral is lower than with full sex, but it’s not zero. I usually look at her mouth, check for cuts, and go with my gut. But yeah, it’s still a gamble.