Do you shower, use antibacterial, take meds, or just pray? Share your post-hookup rituals that make you feel 1% safer (or cleaner).
After every session, I piss immediately, wash with antibacterial soap, and dry off with a clean towel. If it was a raw BJ, I gargle Listerine. Might sound paranoid, but better safe than itchy.
I keep a little post-sex kit in my backpack — baby wipes, mouthwash, hand sanitizer. Especially useful after quickies or when the hotel bathroom feels like a war zone. I don’t always use condoms for oral, but I always clean up like I did something wrong.
Right after I finish, I hit the shower, piss, and wash my junk thoroughly with warm water and soap — never cold water, always warm. If I went bare for oral, I rinse with mouthwash too. I also keep a pack of baby wipes and a little betadine just in case. Not paranoid — just not stupid.