After twenty years in Bangkok, I’ll say this: ladyboys don’t fake enthusiasm. With girls, half the time they’re counting minutes. A ladyboy wants to prove herself, so she’ll go the extra mile — slow, deep, steady. Some of the best I’ve had were from ladyboys I met on Soi Cowboy and later in Phra Khanong. No comparison.

In Pattaya, the difference is confidence. The ladyboys at Boyztown or Walking Street know exactly what they’re doing. They understand male pleasure from the inside out. You don’t need to explain what you like — they just know. If you can get past the mental block, it’s next-level.

For me it depends on the vibe. Some girls at Phuket BJ bars are incredible — playful and skilled. But the best I’ve had, hands down, was a petite ladyboy from Patong who treated it like art. No teeth, no rush, full control. The kind of slow suction rhythm that makes your knees weak. That’s dedication.

A lot of guys won’t admit it publicly, but yeah — ladyboys give better BJs on average. It’s not about gender; it’s about pride in performance. They know men better than anyone, and they like the sense of power that comes with it. Once you’ve experienced a truly skilled one, you stop comparing.

For balance: not all ladyboys are great, and not all girls are bad. But pound for pound, I’d say the Thai ladyboy scene wins for effort. They love seduction. They’ll make you feel wanted, not processed. That’s the key difference — attitude, not anatomy.