I’ve tried both, and for me, post-op wins. It just feels more natural. The psychological part plays a role too — when everything looks and feels like a cis girl, it’s easier to let go and enjoy. One post-op ladyboy I met in Bangkok even told me she had better orgasms post-surgery. That energy translated in bed — it was wild.

Call me weird, but I prefer pre-op. There’s something insanely hot about the duality — the feminine look with a surprise. I’ve had oral from both, but pre-op ladyboys seem to bring more passion and confidence. Maybe they know they’re pushing boundaries, and that turns them on. I like the kink, the taboo, and the rawness.

I’m into pre-op, personally — there’s something wild and taboo about it that gets my blood pumping. But I’ve had post-op ladyboys who were incredibly sensual and skilled, especially with the full GFE treatment. It really depends on the chemistry. If she knows how to move and owns her body, I don’t care what’s down there.

Pre-op ladyboys can be incredibly sensual—it’s about chemistry. Their confidence is unmatched, and many know how to work both ends of the pleasure spectrum. Post-op can feel more like traditional sex, but it lacks the same kinky edge.

I go for pre-op every time. There’s just something wild about the mix of masculine energy and ultra-feminine looks. Post-op girls are beautiful, no doubt—but I’m into the unique thrill only a pre-op can give.

Personally, I prefer pre-op ladyboys — not because I want to interact with their parts, but because they often retain a raw sexual confidence that post-op girls sometimes lose. There’s something about a confident, feminine, pre-op stunner who owns her body and knows how to use it. Many of the best sexual experiences I’ve had in Thailand came from pre-op ladyboys who were proud, assertive, and knew how to switch between dominant and submissive modes based on what I liked.

I’ve tried both, and post-op ladyboys can offer a more traditionally feminine experience — especially if the surgery was top-tier and well healed. The body-to-body contact feels more like sex with a biological woman, and for some guys, that’s the holy grail. But the reality is, it's less about pre-op or post-op and more about confidence, personality, and how she carries herself. I’ve had sensual, mind-blowing sex with both types — it's the vibe that matters most.

Honestly, I’ve been with both, and it really depends on the vibe and chemistry more than what’s down there.

Pre-op ladyboys tend to carry a kind of raw, intense sexual energy — it’s like they fully own both their femininity and their masculinity, and that can be incredibly hot. There's also an honesty to it. No surprises, no pretending. You know exactly what you’re getting, and if you’re into that dynamic, it can be wild.

Post-op ladyboys, on the other hand, often have a softer energy and the whole experience tends to feel more like being with a cis woman — especially if you're someone who’s more into aesthetics or psychological comfort. Some guys say it helps them forget the “mental hurdle” if the surgery was done well.

For me, the best experiences came from how I felt with the person, not what kind of plumbing they had. If there’s connection, chemistry, and confidence — that’s what makes the sex memorable. Not the anatomy.

Pre-op ladyboys bring a wild energy—there’s something raw and uninhibited, especially when they get fully into it. Post-op can feel more like straight sex, but sometimes lacks that same edge. Personally, I go pre-op. The mix of femininity up top and surprise down below just hits different. You’re not just having sex—you’re living out a fantasy.

This is one of those questions that divides guys in Bangkok, Pattaya, and Phuket. Pre-op and post-op ladyboys both bring something totally different to the table, and which you prefer usually depends on what turns you on.

Pre-op ladyboys in places like Nana Plaza (Bangkok) or Soi 6 (Pattaya) often have the wild, “forbidden” thrill factor. Some guys love the mix of feminine body with something extra—it feels taboo, and in the bedroom it can get very kinky very fast. If you’re open-minded, pre-op sex can be an unforgettable rush.

Post-op ladyboys, especially in Bangkok where surgery standards are high, can feel almost indistinguishable from cis women. The intimacy is smoother, more “natural,” and for some guys it removes the mental block of being with someone who still has male parts. Phuket’s Patong bars have plenty of post-op girls who specialize in giving a polished, girlfriend-like experience.

At the end of the day, neither is better or worse—it’s about your personal fantasy. Pattaya gives you raw and adventurous pre-op encounters, Bangkok offers both high-end post-op and glamorous pre-op, and Phuket is a mix of both. Try both, figure out what clicks for you, and don’t judge yourself for whatever answer you land on. That’s the beauty of Thailand—you can explore both sides without shame.

That question hits right at the heart of what makes Thailand’s ladyboy scene so fascinating — it’s not just about anatomy, it’s about chemistry, energy, and what turns you on mentally as much as physically.

For me, it took a while to understand the difference beyond the obvious. Pre-op ladyboys often carry a kind of raw sensuality that’s hard to explain unless you’ve experienced it. They know exactly how to use their bodies — confident, playful, dominant when they want to be, and incredibly aware of the fantasy they create. There’s an electric tension in that mix of feminine beauty and masculine edge that can be ridiculously erotic. It’s that forbidden-fruit feeling — like you’ve crossed a line, but in the best possible way.

Post-op ladyboys, on the other hand, bring a completely different kind of experience. The vibe is softer, slower, and more “girlfriend” than fantasy. Many of them have gone through surgeries not just for clients, but because it completes who they are — and you can feel that energy in bed. The intimacy feels deeper, more emotional. It’s less about the shock and more about connection. You’re not exploring something taboo — you’re just with a woman who happens to have a different journey.

I’ve met guys who swear by pre-op for the thrill, and others who prefer post-op because it feels “simpler” and more natural. Personally, I think it’s less about what’s between their legs and more about what kind of vibe you want that night. Pre-op tends to bring the fantasy, the adrenaline, the “I can’t believe this is happening” rush. Post-op often feels like tenderness and comfort — closer to emotional intimacy than lust.

Either way, Thailand gives you choices that don’t exist anywhere else in the same open, accepting way. The girls here — whether pre or post — are confident, flirtatious, and proud of who they are. That confidence alone makes the sex better than you expect.

So yeah, for me? I don’t pick based on surgery. I pick based on the spark in her eyes when she looks at me across the bar. That tells you everything you need to know before the clothes ever come off.