Welcome to the new Companions forum inside the Escorts Forum.
This section was missing for a long time, and honestly it left a big hole in the site. Escorts are one of the biggest adult categories on earth, but it’s also one of the most misunderstood. Guys go in with a fantasy, then reality hits them fast. Sometimes it’s amazing. Sometimes it’s awkward. Sometimes it’s a total waste of money.
This forum is for real talk about escorts, female escorts, companions, call girls, courtesans, and the whole world around booking private company.
Not ads. Not spam. Not fake reviews. Just practical discussion and real world experience.
The truth nobody tells you
Hiring an escort is simple on paper. You pay, you meet, you enjoy.
But the details decide everything:
- how you message
- how you choose
- what you expect
- how you act in person
- and how well you read red flags
Most bad outcomes come from one of these three things:
- the guy expects porn
- the guy tries to bargain
- the guy has no idea how the escort world actually works
What this forum will cover
If you’re new, this is where you start. If you’re experienced, this is where you sharpen your game.
Topics we will go deep on:
- First time hiring escorts (what to do and what not to do)
- How to message female escorts so you get a real reply
- Pricing reality and why “cheap escorts” usually cost more in the end
- Safety and discretion without paranoia
- Red flags, scams, time wasters, and games
- Escorts vs companions vs call girls vs courtesans (what people really mean)
- Expectations and boundaries so nobody walks away disappointed
- How to get a smooth, relaxed experience instead of awkward silence
Quick starter questions for everyone
Drop your answers below. Even one line helps build the board.
- Have you ever booked an escort before, or are you still thinking about it?
- What city or country are you booking in most often?
- What matters most to you: looks, vibe, service, price, or personality?
- Biggest fear: getting ripped off, awkward meetup, bad chemistry, or safety?
This Escorts Forum is going to be a monster over time. If you’ve got a story, a warning, a tip, or even a simple question, post it.
Let’s build the most useful escort and companions discussion hub online.
Spot on. I’ve never booked an escort before but I’ve been thinking about it for months and the “fantasy vs reality” part is real. My biggest worry is just getting ripped off or showing up and it’s nothing like the photos. I’m leaning toward an independent escort instead of an escort agency, but I honestly don’t know what’s safer for a first timer. Also I keep seeing incall and outcall mentioned everywhere and it’s confusing at first.
Biggest advice I can give new guys: treat it like a normal adult transaction, not a porn scene. Escorts are people, not a vending machine. The guys who get the best experiences with female escorts are the ones who communicate clearly and don’t act weird.
Also, don’t bargain. If you’re trying to negotiate with call girls right out of the gate, you’re basically asking to get ignored or blocked. You want smooth? Be respectful, be direct, and be realistic.
This is exactly the kind of forum that was missing. When you’re traveling, escorts and companions are a totally different game than nightlife bars. I’ve had better luck with outcall when I’m in a decent hotel, but the pricing can jump fast depending on the area and time.
One thing I learned the hard way: if you’re booking through an escort agency, you might not even be chatting with the girl. With an independent escort, the vibe is usually more straightforward, but you still need to message properly or you get nothing back.
My worst experience was early on when I didn’t know what I was doing. I booked a “courtesan” style profile that looked super high end, and the communication was perfect… almost too perfect. Then everything started changing last minute. Time changed, location changed, rate changed. I should have walked away.
That’s the biggest lesson for first time escorts: if it feels chaotic before you even meet, it usually gets worse, not better.
Good starter thread. I’ll add one simple tip for anyone booking an escort for the first time: decide what you actually want before you message. Not in a graphic way, just your basics. Do you want incall or outcall? One hour or two? Quiet vibe or more social vibe?
When you know your plan, it’s way easier to book companions without awkward back and forth. And it makes you look serious, which is what most female escorts respond to.
