10 Freelancer Tricks That Actually Work in Thailand

Intro:
Freelancers are unpredictable. Some are dreamy. Some are scams in heels. So how do you avoid being that guy who buys dinner, drinks, and still ends up alone? These are real tricks that work in the wild — used by guys who know the game.

1. Don’t message too much.
Chatting too long = overinvestment. Set the meet fast. Freelancers get bored easily and will move on.

2. Set the location, don’t ask.
Be decisive. Say “Let’s meet at Terminal 21 food court at 7.” Confidence screens out flakes.

3. Use screenshots of your hotel.
Send a pic of your room (without your face). It makes you look legit, not sketchy.

4. Pay in advance = sucker move.
No matter how convincing she is, never pay for anything until you’re face to face.

5. Have an exit excuse.
“My friend just landed at Suvarnabhumi” works great. Gives you a way out if the vibe’s wrong.

6. Watch her phone behavior.
If she’s texting non-stop, she might be lining up another gig after you.

7. Compliment her English.
Not creepy. Just polite. It builds trust fast if she’s unsure about you.

8. Let her order first.
She’ll signal her vibe through food choices. Drink = party mode. Just a smoothie = probably wants it over quick.

9. Ask if she’s ever worked in Singapore.
Common cover story. If she lights up or gets cagey, there’s a story behind it.

10. Never rush the close.
If it’s a yes, it will happen naturally. Rushing signals desperation, and you’ll get ghosted next time.

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