Sex in Thailand – Blowjobs, Gogo Bars, Erotic Massages, Ladyboys, & Nightlife Guide

Another thing new guys miss is the schedule issue. A lot of Thai sugar babies have school or part time work. If her schedule is chaotic, your arrangem...

The thing I wish I had known is that Bangla Road is mostly a show for tourists. The real fun sits in the side alleys—Soi Sea Dragon for beer bars, Soi...

Some of the most fun nights I’ve had in Pattaya were in small ladyboy beer bars around LK Metro and on the side streets off Walking Street. Even if it...

People underestimate sugar babies in Bangkok. They look glamorous on Instagram, but many are semi-pros who expect more than just dinner. If you’re new...

I’ll admit it: I came to Thailand for Bangkok escorts and ended up dating a ladyboy companion for almost a year. She wasn’t a fantasy — she was real, ...

After years around the Bangkok massage circuit, I’ve realized the word “extras” means different things depending on the masseuse. In small aromatherap...

This might surprise some people, but I’ve seen men do exactly that in bars, and the reaction is often touching. Many women here are kind and empatheti...

I think the main issue still hasn’t been addressed. It’s not really about whether the bar staff or venues mind if you’re not drinking — most of them d...

I’ve met sugar babies both on Secret Benefits and in real life here in Thailand. The biggest shift happens when the man starts needing validation. Onc...

I learned this the hard way. A few years ago I twisted my ankle on Soi Cowboy, ended up at Bumrungrad Hospital, and my budget policy refused to cover ...

For Bangkok newbies: avoid anyone outside Soi Cowboy or Nana Plaza offering “special shows” or “private bars.” It’s almost always a scam. You’ll be ha...

Just came back from a week in Sukhumvit and was surprised by how good Nana Plaza still is. The renovations around 2022–2023 made it feel more organize...

Great list — thanks! Just to add: I went to Octave (Marriott Sukhumvit) last month, and their sunset seating was excellent. Drinks were steep (around ...

The real question isn’t: “Am I still straight?”The real question is: “Why am I afraid to accept what turns me on?”Society has programmed men to fear t...