Seven is a lot, but honestly nothing “wrong” unless he promised exclusivity. Sugar dating isn’t monogamy by default. If someone wants exclusivity, they should negotiate it — not assume it. The real issue here is expectations, not the number.

The logistics alone are insane. Seven allowances, seven schedules, seven personalities, seven sets of emotional needs. Either this guy is rich, bored, or a project manager in real life. I can barely handle two people texting me at once.

Most sugar daddies have more than one sugar baby. They just don’t advertise it. What caused the explosion wasn’t the number — it was the secrecy. When people think they have a special connection and suddenly discover they’re “number five,” the ego hit is brutal.

If he’s honest, respectful, paying on time, and not putting anyone in danger, I don’t really see the problem. Sugar dating is essentially a time exchange dynamic. As long as each baby is getting what they agreed to, he can date seven or seventy.

My take: it only becomes shady when a sugar daddy EXPECTS exclusivity from the babies while refusing to offer the same back. A double standard is where the drama starts. As long as everyone is transparent, multiple arrangements are normal and even healthy for some people.