Yeah, guilty here. I barfined the same Soi 6 girl three nights in a row because she gave the best deepthroat blowjob I’ve ever had in Pattaya. First night was supposed to be a short-time, ended up long-time because we clicked. She rode me reverse cowgirl until sunrise. Thought it was love… until I saw her sitting with another guy the next week.

I thought I was in love when a Soi 6 girl offered CIM without me even asking. Her oral skills were insane, she sucked me dry twice in one short-time session. Took her for long-time the next night, but after a week of paying barfines and drinks, I realized it was just the best sex of my life, not love.

Fell hard for one girl who gave the slowest, sloppiest blowjob with tons of spit, then pulled me into doggy and begged me to finish inside. Next thing I know I’m buying her food, paying her rent, and she’s calling me “darling.” Lesson learned: Pattaya girls know how to mix sex and feelings better than anyone.

For me it wasn’t just the sex positions — though she gave an amazing cowgirl ride and deep CIM finish. It was the way she laughed and held me after. I kept going back, convinced she was different. Spoiler: she wasn’t. She had a husband upcountry. Still… best sex in Pattaya, no regrets.

I never thought a 1,000-baht Soi 6 short-time would lead to feelings, but the girl I met gave me the wildest oral sex session, swallowed every drop, then asked if I wanted to stay long-time. After that I couldn’t stop seeing her. It was the mix of cheap, dirty sex and fake romance that hooked me.

I’ve seen plenty of guys lose their head over a Soi 6 girl, and I get why—it’s a wild mix of fun, booze, and intimacy packed into a short street in Pattaya. The thing is, Soi 6 isn’t Nana Plaza in Bangkok or Bangla Road in Phuket—it’s more personal, faster paced, and sometimes more dangerous for the heart. A lot of these girls will happily play girlfriend for the night, or even a week, but remember: for them, it’s still a job. If you start paying rent, buying phones, or wiring money when you’re back home, you’re no longer “her customer,” you’re her sponsor. That’s where most guys get burned.

If you really want to enjoy Soi 6 without heartbreak, treat it as entertainment. Take her out for dinner, hit a karaoke bar, maybe even spend a few nights together—but keep your wallet and your emotions in check. Bangkok and Phuket have plenty of distractions if you need a break from Pattaya’s intensity, and spreading your time between cities keeps things in balance. Falling in love with a bar girl can feel real in the moment, but in almost every case, it’s a fantasy that costs more than it’s worth.

Yeah… I did. Not proud, not ashamed either — just honest about it.
It happened a few years back when I was basically living on Soi 6, killing time and pretending to be on “holiday.” She worked at one of those mid-soi bars with red lights so dim you can’t tell if it’s 7 p.m. or midnight. I kept saying I’d only have one beer, and somehow every night ended upstairs in that same short-time room that smelled like coconut oil and lost promises.

At first I thought she was playing me — the way she remembered my drink, the way she laughed at jokes that weren’t funny. But one night she told me about her kid up in Isaan, her mom’s hospital bills, how she used to work in a factory before COVID closed it. She wasn’t spinning a sob story; she was just tired of lying for tips. That honesty hit harder than any drink.

Before I knew it, I was bringing her breakfast the next morning, fixing her phone, walking her to the motorbike stand like we were dating. My mates called me crazy, but the line between lust and love gets blurry fast on Soi 6. When a girl looks at you like you’re more than another wallet, you start to believe it.

It ended the way these things always do — she found a richer guy, and I finally sobered up. But even now, when I walk past that bar, I still glance inside half-expecting to see her. Pattaya teaches you a strange kind of lesson: sometimes the most real connection of your life lasts only a few nights, and that’s enough.

So yeah, I fell for a Soi 6 bar girl. Maybe we all do at least once — and maybe that’s why we keep coming back.