A quiet scandal has been circulating through Sukhumvit the past ten days, and it is reaching more sugar circles by the hour. Several Thai sugar babies and a few foreign sugar daddies are caught in a situation that started small but is now spreading through private groups, Telegram channels, and the usual Sukhumvit rumor chain.

Here is the story that keeps coming up.

A well known Thai sugar baby who operates mostly around Phrom Phong and Asok apparently promised exclusive arrangements to multiple foreign sugar daddies at the same time. Each man believed he was the only one supporting her. Everything stayed under control until two of the men accidentally crossed paths at the same cafe near Sukhumvit 31. Both were there because she told them she was meeting a friend. She walked in and froze. They recognized each other instantly.

The confrontation never got violent, but a lot of private messages, screenshots, and voice notes leaked into a LINE group later that night. That is when the scandal grew. Other sugar babies came forward saying the same girl has been running a structured system for months. She would offer exclusivity, request a strong monthly allowance, then rotate three to four men at the same time. When one man complained or started to reduce support, she replaced him quickly.

What shocked many people is not the cheating itself.
It was the scale and the organization.

According to the leak, she kept a weekly calendar with each daddy’s preferred days, allowance details, meeting spots, and emotional triggers. She even ranked them by reliability. The girl was not acting chaotic. She was running a controlled operation with precision.

In the sugar dating world, this is not entirely new, but the Sukhumvit community is calling it the most coordinated setup they have seen in a while. Some sugar babies defended her, saying she was doing what she needed to survive. Others say she crossed the line by promising exclusivity that she never intended to respect.

Foreigners are reacting strongly because situations like this damage trust.
Men who are new to sugar dating in Thailand think arrangements are simple, but the reality is much more layered. Thai sugar babies talk to each other, share information, and sometimes compete in ways newcomers do not understand.

The scandal also reveals something important.
If your allowance is not strong, your arrangement is not exclusive, even if you believe it is.

Has anyone here heard parts of this story, or seen situations like this in Bangkok before?
Is this just one girl, or a sign of how the Sukhumvit sugar scene is evolving?